December 5, 2011

Weddings Weddings Weddings, y'all

So, I recently received a copy of Southern Weddings magazine in the mail and I absolutely LOVE it. If you don't have a copy, I suggest you pick one up ASAP!



Check out some of their amazing vendors:

Need I say more? I am (and have always been) obsessed with Lilly. I was just in my local Lilly store the other day looking for a rehearsal dinner dress. The one I picked in the store is the strapless Blossom Dress in cameo/white sizzle strips; I put it on my Christmas list, but it is no longer on the website... pretty please Santa or Lilly Goddesses! If that dress is long gone - as good things are when you wait to long. I am also in LOVE with the Hotty Pink Glitzy Stripe Sherry Dress (also below). Check out Southern Wedding Magazine's blog to enter to win!

 



These clutches from Angee W are so cute that I just HAD to share. My amazing bridesmaids consist of my two cousins (maid of honors), my fiance's two sister-in-laws, my college best friend (and fellow bride-to-be) and three best friends from growing up (one recently hitched and one engaged). These clutches would be the PERFECT complement to our southern theme and I know they would love them!




Who wouldn't love a super cute loungerie set from Plumb Pretty Sugar? Unfortunately, I had not heard of the company until today - but I am SO glad Southern Weddings turned me on to another amazing vendor and can't wait to show all my other engaged friends!

p.s. Santa, I NEED this Pink Love Poppy Honeymoon set.


How cute are these lockets? I would LOVE to have one hanging from my bouquet with a monogram. Also loving the photo lockets - GREAT gifts for friends and family... and even your wedding party.



After browsing the website, I absolutely LOVE the paperfinger products... especially the custom address stamp. I have actually been looking for one to use for our thank you notes; the gifts are starting to come in for our March wedding and it would be perfect. I can't even decide between the letting styles because they are all so unique - but G and H are probably my favorites. I also love their custom ribbon.. what a great idea!

October 14, 2011

How to Get a Social Media Job in 5 Min...

10 Workplace Habits That Could Cost You Your Career


provided by Forbes.com
by Meghan Casserly
Experts agree that in the current employment climate, bad behavior is becoming less and less something employers tolerate -- and more of a fireable offense. "For every one of you, there are a 100 people lining up to take your job," says Kiki Weingarten, an executive career coach based in New York City. "Employers are more able than ever to be as picky as they want."
Here, four leading career coaches offer 10 bad workplace habits they've seen that send employees down the road to poor reviews. Check yourself before you wreck yourself.
Habit: You're addicted to email
In meetings, with clients, with your boss, you just can't stop scrolling through your BlackBerry. You think you're being productive by making sure you don't miss a message while stuck in the weekly sales meeting but your colleagues (particularly those speaking) see it as a personal insult. Constantly checking your smart phone conveys a real sense of arrogance, says Princeton, New Jersey-based  communication coach Matt Eventoff.
How to break it:
Put the BlackBerry down," says Eventoff, "especially if you're in a meeting." Turn it off, put it away, leave it in your office. "If you're waiting for a particular, time-sensitive email, let your coworkers know beforehand," Eventoff says, "Otherwise your BlackBerry has no place at the meeting."
Habit: You're a brown-noser
Nobody likes a kiss-up, and in the office one too many well-placed compliments could leave you with this reviled reputation. Say yes to everything a higher-up asks for, and your teammates will easily resent your enthusiasm. Even worse, your boss might see through your constant congratulations and think you more a nuisance than a constructive team-member.
How to break it:
Take a look at the last 10 things you've said yes to, whether opinions of your supervisor or tasks around the office. Is there anything you disagree to when you think honestly about them? Learning to say no every now and then will show both your supervisors and your teammates that you actually have a spine.
Habit: You're a busy-body
Do you mind your own business or is your ear constantly perked for the latest gossip or office happenings? Check yourself. You habit of needing to be in the know is likely a source of stress for your coworkers. Whether it's the movement of colleagues within the company or who's meeting who for post-work cocktails, making everything your business spells trouble.
How to break it:
If it's information you need to perform in your position, schedule weekly meetings with colleagues and team meeting to stay on top of pertinent happenings. Otherwise wait for information to come to you and avoid the urge to jump into overheard conversations. If all else fails, invest in some headphones.
Habit: Your email etiquette is lacking
If your outbox reads more like a firing squad than friendly exchanges, it may be time to take a look at your communication style.  "It's very rarely that emails are being perceived as too meek," says Eventoff. "As email has no tone, no emotions, no intonation, it's very easy for your short emails to be perceived as pushy, demanding or impatient."
How to break it:
If poor email habits persist, bad feelings are bound to brew in a team, Eventoff says. Make a habit of reading over emails before you send and gauge how they might be received, particularly if they're directed to someone outside of your office.
Habit: You're full of excuses
You may have forgotten the zip drive with your presentation notes, but you're not about to admit it. You don't know the answer to your supervisor's questions but try to talk your way around it. The result is that you've wasted not just your own time, but your manager's and colleagues' as well.
How to break it:
Set a reminder ten minutes before the start of every meeting on your docket, says Patrick Flannery, an executive advisor based in Arlington, Virginia.  "Better 10 minutes of your own time to gather necessary papers and gather your thoughts then 20 minutes spent making excuses in front of colleagues."
Habit: You're a multi-tasking mess
Technology has made multi-tasking the norm in most workplaces, but experts say it's causing more problems than productivity. If you've been caught more than once missing pertinent information in emails or correspondence  — especially deadlines, dollar signs or project elements—it might be a sign you're not as skilled at juggling tasks as you think, according to Roy Cohen, career consultant and author of "The Wall Street Professional's Survival Guide."
How to break it:
Make a conscious effort to focus on only the task (or phone call or email) in front of you. Read each email thoroughly and respond before moving on to the next. "And don't answer the phone until you're finished," Flannery warns. The habit of juggling different tasks is hard to break, but if your performance is suffering it's unavoidable.
Habit: You're a prima donna
"That's not in my job description." The problem with setting too many boundaries at work—whether it's saying no to tasks or assignments you feel aren't your responsibility, or keeping iron-clad 9-to-4:59 hours—is that when you think "self-protective," your coworkers think "jerk." And if that "somebody" are your colleagues and managers, you'll quickly find you've done yourself no favors by sticking to your guns. Chances are it's not in their contracts either.
How to break it:
The next time an unattractive task comes across your desk, ask yourself who'll have to tackle it if you pass it off. Recognize that in periods of downsizing, everyone must pick up extra slack—and your reputation will suffer if you make yourself the exception.
Habit: You're the office thief
If pens keep "appearing" on your desktop that are not yours, chances are you have a "borrowing" problem. Walking off with people's pens, staplers or favorite coffee mugs is never going to win you any love.
How to break it:
Label your own things, or at least stick to a certain, identifiable brand of pens. This may seem counter intuitive, says Flannery, but the second you see a pen on your desk that isn't "your brand," you'll make a conscious effort to remember whose it is -- and return it.
Habit: Your style does you no favors
Personal style is one thing. Questionable style is another. When your supervisor questions whether your look is "client-appropriate" you've got a fashion-work conflict that could cost you your next promotion.
How to break it:
Imagine the closet of the person you admire most at the office, Cohen suggests. How do they dress and why does it suit their position in the company? Imagine their daily wardrobe decisions. Then go shopping with your role model in mind.
Habit: You're quick-tempered
"An angry employee is a dangerous employee," says Cohen, who has spent twenty years coaching fiery execs. "Managers are wary of employees who are quick to anger. They know what 'going postal' means." If your blood pressure spikes every time the photocopier breaks down, or assistants scatter when you enter a room, it's time to reexamine your behavior. Uneasy or uncomfortable coworkers are unlikely to sing your praises.
How to break it:
To lose the reputation of a loose cannon, make an effort to pause before reacting to a stressful situation. Flannery suggests closing your office door and taking several deep breaths, and "by all means, avoid venting to coworkers before thinking it through." If all else fails, Cohen says to seek counseling. "Chances are you're angry about more than just the job."
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September 28, 2011

Two to follow...

I recently discovered two great things in the world of weddings....

AND

Make sure you follow them on facebook and check out this adorable wedding dress hangers. MUST HAVE!

August 11, 2011

August 9, 2011

love me some HBI

So, a couple of weeks ago, I dedicated my post to the top 3 wedding blogs I follow (one being Honey Bee Invites). They are having a contest right now giving away the cutest wedding signs. I saw a similar one on stylemepretty and have been looking for them ever since.


Some other great finds on HBI's website that I would love for my wedding:

Super southern invitations

Wedding Map... Savannah of course

Monogrammed cards - thank you notes

July 29, 2011

Wedding Friday

In honor of my slowly approaching wedding date (only 239 days to go!), I figured I would dedicate a post to wedding inspiration. Here are a few of the best (and my favorite) wedding blogs around...


This is my absolute favorite. So many great ideas and always amazing pictures.



Love the DIY section



Soooo cute. LOVE hbi!

July 27, 2011

America’s Best Cities for Young Professionals

According to a recent article from Forbes, the top cities for young professionals are:

1. Des Moines, Iowa
M.S.A.: Des Moines-West Des Moines, Iowa
Average Annual Job Growth (2010-2012): 0.99%
Median salary: $47,200
Cost-of-living index (U.S. average is 100): 92
Percent of pop. with college degrees: 33.8%
1 small business for every 50 residents
1 large business for every 568 residents
Unemployment rate: 5.8%
The corn-belt city has the most big businesses per capita, a brag-worthy unemployment rate, low cost of living and a flourishing number of young professionals residing in the area.

2. Raleigh, N.C.
M.S.A.: Raleigh-Cary, N.C.
Average Annual Job Growth (2010-2012): 2%
Median salary: $51,500
Cost-of-living index (U.S. average is 100): 104.4
Percent of pop. with college degrees: 42.2%
1 small business for every 49 residents
1 large business for every 770 residents
Unemployment rate: 7.9%
The college town has one of the best job growth projections of any city we assessed and the 16th best average salary for young professionals, exceeded only by markedly more expensive cities.

3. Madison, Wis.
M.S.A.: Madison, Wis.
Average Annual Job Growth (2010-2012): 0.89%
Median salary: $4 7,100 Cost-of-living index (U.S. average is 100): 102.6
Percent of pop. with college degrees: 41%
1 small business for every 48 residents
1 large business for every 689 residents
Unemployment rate: 5.3%
Wisconsin's capital city boasts a low unemployment rate thanks to governmental jobs and the University of Wisconsin-Madison, and a growing number of biotech and advertising companies.

4. Salt Lake City, Utah
M.S.A.: Salt Lake City, Utah
Average Annual Job Growth (2010-2012): 1.32%
Median salary: $51,200
Cost-of-living index (U.S. average is 100): 103.9
Percent of pop. with college degrees: 29.7%
1 small business for every 43 residents
1 large business for every 764 residents
Unemployment rate: 7.2%
A large number of small businesses per capita, a high concentration of banks and good paychecks mean the "Crossroads of the West" offers opportunity to young professionals.

5. Omaha, Neb.
M.S.A.: Omaha-Council Bluffs, NE-IA Average
Annual Job Growth (2010-2012): 0.82%
Median salary: $45,400
Cost-of-living index (U.S. average is 100): 91.8
Percent of pop. with college degrees: 31.7%
1 small business for every 50 residents
1 large business for every 754 residents
Unemployment rate: 4.6%
Warren Buffett's hometown has the lowest unemployment rate on our list, low cost of living and a significant number of large businesses.

6. Portland, Maine
M.S.A.: Portland-South Portland-Biddeford, Maine
Average Annual Job Growth (2010-2012): 0.9%
Median salary: $41,000
Cost-of-living index (U.S. average is 100): 101.9
Percent of pop. with college degrees: 34.4%
1 small business for every 35 residents
1 large business for every 696 residents
Unemployment rate: 6.2%
The New England port town has the highest number of small businesses per capita, a relatively high proportion of large businesses and a low unemployment rate.

7. Denver, Colo.
M.S.A.: Denver-Aurora-Broomfield, Colo.
Average Annual Job Growth (2010-2012): 1%
Median salary: $51,000
Cost-of-living index (U.S. average is 100): 102.8
Percent of pop. with college degrees: 37.6%
1 small business for every 43 residents
1 large business for every 1,020 residents
Unemployment rate: 8.5%
The Mile High City boasts a significant college-educated population, a note-worthy number of small businesses and a healthy job growth rate that's bolstered by the presence of companies like Lockheed Martin and IBM

May 17, 2011

TOP 5 Marketing and PR Blogs (MUST READS)

Below are a few blogs I follow and use for inspiration. One of the hardest parts about using social media is keeping your content fresh; this is essential to gaining and maintaining readership.

1- O'Dwyer PR Blog

2- Edelman Landing Blog

3- Spin Sucks

4- PRSA ComPRehension

5- Social Media Explorer

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A little poison ivy never hurt anyone... right?


Hardin's Atlanta associates spent the day volunteering at Chattahoochee Nature Center doing various tasks for the nonprofit organization. I was on fence duty where we walked along the perimeter of the property clearing brush and cutting down trees that could potentially damage the fence.

It was a long, but rewarding day where the associates came together to celebrate Hardin's 65th anniversary. While my not-so-favorite souvenir was poison ivy, I enjoyed the fellowship and satisfaction of a hard day's work.

April 29, 2011

April 15, 2011

Mystery Trip?

Where am I going this weekend for my birthday? Wouldn't I like to know the answer to that question? All I know is I am flying into Orlando and driving to an undisclosed destination. Can't wait to see what is in store for me.

I LOVE birthday surprises :)

March 30, 2011

Top PR/Marketing Job Finders

I don't know if it is the steadily approaching May graduation date or people itching to find something new, but I have had several friends in the past couple of weeks ask for my advice about fining PR and Marketing jobs. So... here it is, my go to list:


  1. PRSA (check out the job center)
  2. SMPS (career center)
  3. LinkedIn (job postings)
  4. Atlanta PR Jobs
  5. My personal twitter job list (@maryfkrueger/prjobs)

March 17, 2011